Showing posts with label job loss. Show all posts
Showing posts with label job loss. Show all posts

Friday, August 7, 2026

"Drought"

This summer’s unrelenting heat means our yards dry a little more each day. I noticed today that several of the bushes out back have dead branches. Nature protects the core, and the peripheral appendages begin to wither. My heart breaks to see this loss.
Loss goes deeper this summer than wilting gardens. I’ve several friends struggling with serious health issues like cancer. I admire the strength they exhibit as they face each day with unbelievable optimism. They handle the new challenges life’s handed them with the unshakable conviction that every thought and effort will bring health back into their lives. For other friends, this summer’s trials come from aging parents needing live-in help, assisted living or nursing home care. Some friends will decide to move in with parents while others will move parents in with them.
            For the generation of our children, we see job opportunities drying up overnight. Imagine spending four years in college, taking out loans to finance this education, and not landing a job up to five or six months later. These adult children find themselves moving back in with their parents as they regroup. Some hold tenaciously to their college part-time jobs because “something is better than nothing.” Those still in school wonder and worry about next year’s opportunities. How long will this economic drought last? Onto this brittle landscape, I watch in frustration as our petty politicians play with matches.
            I know that we need rain. Not a flooding deluge that obliterates everything in its path, but a soft and steady rain—one that brings the sunrise in its wake, one that soaks deeply into the cracked ground, one that cleanses away the dust and cobwebs, one that heals our land.   


Copyright 2011 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman

Thursday, June 20, 2024

“Storms Ahead”


            Some months, I worry that I may need to return to substitute teaching to allow us to build a vacation fund or bank away enough money to remodel the bathrooms and update the kitchen. Then I remember how illness traveled with me as I went from classroom to classroom, school to school. Frankly, as I get older I don’t know if my body can take the pummeling various viruses battered through me. Would the extra money be worth exposing my health to illnesses that settle in my chest for weeks at a time?

            Frankly, a trip to the beach or mountains, to another city or another country doesn’t entice me to return to work. Although the house needs sprucing up here-and-there, everything works. No reason to gut a room if it also means picking up a bug that also guts me!

            My determination to remain fully retired took a punch last week when my husband’s company announced another round of layoffs happening soon. Our goal has been for him work until he’s 70 to pull in the highest Social Security benefit possible. If he ends up unemployed at 67, will his retirement income be enough?

            We frantically crunched all of the numbers, remembering that we’d have to pick up all of his medical insurance, and realized one or both of us would still need to work at least part-time, or begin tapping into our retirement funds earlier than we predicted.

            How can this be?

            Over the next few weeks, we’ll see how the dust settles. With luck, his position will remain untouched during this round of cuts. He’ll get to his goal of three more years with this company, and I won’t get thrown back to work.

            For now, we’re on alert for possible storms ahead.





 Copyright 2024 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman

           

               

 

Wednesday, March 8, 2023

"The Footlong Generation"

 Our children live at home— 
dreaming, planning, reaching, and working
within a reality of Pink Slips and Red Ink 

meeting Maslow’s levels by 
staying, sharing, settling, and waiting 
Our children leave our homes— 
dreaming, planning, reaching, and working
 
but return with Divorce and Failure 
postponing their destinies by 
bleeding, retreating, suffering, then healing
 
Our parents live at home— 
yearning, coping, striving, craving 
becoming our children by 
needing, depending, trusting, and relenting
 
Our parents live in homes—
yearning, coping, striving, craving 
relinquishing their destinies by 
falling, breaking, suffering, dying 







Copyright 2010 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman