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| David Chapman-artist |
Copyright 2024 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman
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| David Chapman-artist |
Copyright 2024 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman
For many years, I’d jot a list of goals or guidelines onto the final page of my journal. At first, the practicality of these reminders meant I rarely looked at them. “Pay off car” or “Save for a fence” didn’t need a weekly reminder. Gradually the notations gave way to little personal mottos like” Stay in today” or “Laugh every day.” This time around, I wrote the words “Be kind.”
What a lovely concept, and how sad that I feel the need to prompt myself to give tolerance and understanding when dealing with other people. I often fall short of personal goals, and when I’m stressed and tired, my ability to react with thoughtfulness dwindles to a microscopic mite.
“Be kind” holds nobleness. If I can dip into patience and sympathy as my initial response to an adverse situation or obnoxious encounter, perhaps I can diffuse negativity in my life.
“Be kind” nurtures grace and gentleness. If furious frustration flames within me because of someone’s painful thoughtlessness, I should douse it with common courtesy, drown it in goodwill.
“Be kind” smothers greed, hatred and cruelty under a blanket of consideration, tenderness, and decency. So by following this two word principal, my spirit gains contentment.
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| David Chapman- Artist |
O Captain! My Captain!
commands a tight ship
her way or no way
leaves our friendship
bleeding drops of red
Her weary crew
grows wary
of her tongue’s whiplash
any suggested change of course
screams Mutiny in her mind
Her iron grip
strangles any whisper of dissent
her obsessive voyage
leaves me to question
why her journey is my quest
O Captain! My Captain!
her unrelenting criticism
damages our bond beyond repair
her stranglehold for control
makes this my final cruise
Copyright 2026 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman
Two small and wilted Mandevilla plants caught my eye a few months ago at the grocery store. Knowing nothing about them except that they love bright sunlight, it didn’t take long for me to fall in love with their bright red trumpets. Being young and non-established, I’ve planted them into small pots for now. At the moment, my mini-greenhouse sits bare and uncovered. I think, though, the Mandevillas will shift to the top of my list for which flowers spend this winter with added shelter and warmth. If they don’t survive, I’ll make certain to find larger and healthier ones to plant into my garden out back next year.
Copyright 2026 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman