Tuesday, January 25, 2022
“Root Rot Regrowth”
Friday, January 21, 2022
“Our Greenhouse Experiment”
| Hot tub haven |
Back in November, I
came up with the idea of taking our old, defunct hot tub and converting it into
a “greenhouse” to weather some of our larger, cold sensitive plants. A little
brainstorming possibilities, a run through Home Depot for supplies, and we
created a cradle for our aloes and ferns.
Checking the interior temperatures daily shows a successful experiment. The tub’s warmth, always at least ten degrees above the outside temperature, has allowed us to feel pretty confident that the plants will survive this winter safely.
Until this yesterday.
Outside, the cold air dipped to a little below freezing. The thermometer read in the forties. That’s probably the lowest our Aloe Vera will tolerate. The ferns, too, may survive this freezing dip if it doesn’t last too long. By this afternoon, the highs should top out in the low fifties, meaning our “greenhouse” will climb into the sixties. Once our daily highs hit the sixties again, we’ll do a visual check to make certain everything survived this snap.
| Hot tub haven! |
Copyright 2022 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman
Thursday, January 20, 2022
“Go With the Flow”
| Rocky road at the cabin |
| Our Bronco II |
| Escape Hybrid |
We just terminated our plans to visit the Leakey cabin this weekend. A cold front blusters into the area, dropping temperatures for this weekend to the low twenties. As no one’s used the ancient space heater in at least four years, we don’t want to get up there to find there’s no heat. Waiting until next weekend shifts the lows into the upper forties. Even if we have no heat, we’ll manage with warm clothing and the military wool blankets stored up there.
The wonderful part of
now owning an SUV that can tackle the rugged cabin road means we possess a
flexibility that we surrendered about six years ago when our previous SUV
needed extensive and expensive repairs. We purchased a sedan that met our daily
needs with the assurances by my in-laws that they would loan us one of their
high clearance cars or trucks to access our cabin. Those of you who deal with
narcissists know that their offer turned immediately into “strings attached” transactions.
When we borrowed a vehicle from them, we always left our own car for them to
use. This exchange—car for car—was more than other family members did, where
sometimes my in-laws let other friends or family use cars for months.
Each attempt to do a
car swap ended with them changing the loan terms whenever we did the trade. The
last time we tried a switch for a four day weekend, they changed the amount of
time to wanting their car back within twenty-four hours—just because. They didn’t
tell us that, though, until we’d loaded their car with our supplies. I cried
the entire two hour drive. We never borrowed a car again.
For us, having our
Bronco Sport means changing plans impacts only us. Ice and snow or sweltering
summer heat can shift our plans instead of a dependence on the grace of others
who always play a game I never understand.
Copyright 2022 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman
| Trips whenever we want! |
Tuesday, January 18, 2022
“Too Much Time?”
Like many people, I
started working at sixteen and never stopped. The two years as caregiver for
Mom as she circled down into the late stage of Huntington’s disease translated
into a grueling 24/7 schedule. I returned to work “part-time” as a substitute teacher
with the idea that I had freedom to adjust my days as I pleased. Even
pre-pandemic, school districts experienced a shortage of substitutes, and I
became a sucker for a plea from a secretary to book weeks in advance. I broke
my vow to “cut back” to only working two or three days a week as my calendar
filled year-after-year.
Then COVID-19 halted
me in my tracks. The spring of 2020 suddenly loomed open and empty. At first, I
reveled in the wonder of having enough Time for anything and everything. I
finished neglected yard and garden projects. I reorganized every closet and
drawer, and ventured into the garage and attics for a purge. I detailed the
cars to a showroom shine. I binged on television and movies, and read
blissfully.
Hours? Days? Weeks?
Months? Tracking time became unnecessary.
Until lack of use
drained the Mazda’s battery!
I realized tracking time
needed a new type of routine other than up at 5 AM, Monday thru Friday to work
all day. Slowly, a weekly sequence evolved. Mondays I designated for ERRANDS
DAY that included a grocery store run and take-outs to support local
restaurants. To avoid draining the car batteries, Tuesdays turned into CAR
DAYS. The RX8 zips down a stretch of highway at 70 mph to keep the engine
purring. Wednesdays shifted to WASH DAYS. That means stripping all of the beds,
tossing in the towels, and tackling our multitude of throws along with our
usual clothing. The tradition of NO CHORE Thursday (started when caring for
Mom) continued to this day. I assigned Fridays for COMPANY CLEANING: bathrooms
disinfected, mirrors polished, furniture dusted, floors mopped. Saturday and
Sunday opened up as free days, too.
My system means my days don’t blur without some kind of “tick” to mark them. I don’t have to remember if I’ve driven the car from one week to the next, or if I’ve forgotten to wash Koi’s bedding. A glance at my phone yields the weekday, and my morning chores fall into place.
Of course, it amazes
me that I finally have too much time.
Copyright 2022 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman
Friday, January 14, 2022
“Indulgence”
My new doctor
challenged me with a weight loss goal and the simple instructions: WALK. An
easy challenge for most people, but anyone with problem knees understands the
intricacies of this task. Back at the beginning of the pandemic, enjoying my
unexpected time off, I overused and injured my left knee. Two weeks of RICE
followed by a PA’s examination and the warning to rehab very, very slowly and
carefully meant I avoided further injury and didn’t need any follow-up
treatment.
I celebrated my
vaccination by renewing my gym membership. It took a few weeks of trying
different times to discover the perfect period for me to exercise without too
many other people around. My goal to be heart healthy couldn’t ignore COVID-19.
At first, my knee
hummed at me with irritation if I hit the treadmill for longer than fifteen
minutes. After a frustrated six weeks, I shifted to the bicycle. I came home
triumphant when, day after day, my knee handled thirty minutes at Level 1
without protest. I noted improvement in other ways. The first time I attempted
to walk through a local mall, my knee demanded rest about half-way into the circuit.
By Christmas, I wove effortlessly through the crowds. Of course, around this
time, COVID’S Omicron burst onto the scene causing me to backburner a return to
the gym.
Two weeks ago, I drove to our park and tested myself with a 1.3 mile loop over the park’s dam. For three days, I found other paths that looped around the area. In the past, I would have walked to the park, too. That dare I didn’t attempt until yesterday. After reading a few articles on the benefits of walking, I realized that confining myself to thirty minutes hedged me in to trying for a quicker pace. For me, allowing myself a full sixty minutes of nothing but “ME” time turned into a luxury of day dreaming and birdsong listening. With my mind set on spending an entire hour on my journey, the hurry shifted emotionally to an indulgence.
Copyright 2022 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman