Showing posts with label comfortable. Show all posts
Showing posts with label comfortable. Show all posts

Friday, January 10, 2025

“If It Isn’t Broken”

 



          We try to take a frugal, practical path in life. If something can be repaired, refurbished, or refinished it remains in our household. We don’t ditch something because it’s no longer “in style”. My kitchen cabinets went out of fashion twenty years ago, and I’ll never paint them as is the trend. Appliances like our fridge and dishwasher have been repaired first before we resort to replacing them. My stove top and oven date back to 1993 because we replace elements when they burn out. Other furnishings, purchased during the first years of our marriage, get switched from room to room. My son’s baby rocker gets treated with Murphey’s oil and now sits in the family room. Most of the time my attention skips over the older pieces. They form a comfortable, familiar background. Occasionally, I’ll zero in on something and think, “How old is that crockpot?” or “Those lamps have ancient wiring.” Replacing these items shift onto my “To Do List”.
            A few weeks ago, our alarm clock, the one EVERYONE has, began gaining time. We swapped out the batteries, reset everything, and set it back down into the background of our routines. This morning, the 7:15 alarm sounded. I punched snooze and took my morning medications. Over the last nine months, I’ve added putting on my watch as I head into the bathroom. This morning, when I checked for the outside temperature, I noted it was only 6:30, not 7:15! Our clock gained time again.
            We won’t replace the clock. Like everyone else, we’ll set our phones with an alarm. I do feel a little sad as this piece was a wedding gift. Normally, I get rid of things break, but I think I’ll find a place to store it, even if it’s broken.




Copyright 2025 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman

Friday, April 14, 2023

"Forgive and Forget"


Over time, the walls of self-defense become chinked with wear   
Overgrown by ivy, flowering each spring with climbing roses,     
The origins for brick and mortar fade in memory     
The enemy’s conniving and manipulation forgotten with each passing season     
Over time, the story of the their cruelty mutates     
Into a softer narrative of the human frailty found within their souls  
And the need to forgive and forget their heartless and vindictive natures      
Grows because I must repair my damaged spirit      
Over time, the protective barriers seem superfluous      
My internal longings to belong create false hope      
That “this time” will prove different—better      
That somehow they’ve gentled with time      
Foolish me—to pull down the walls, to retell the tale        
To desire their love    
Foolish me—to provide them opportunity, to crush me     
Under the weight of my forgiveness

      
Copyright 2014 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman