My mother’s childhood showcases
trauma and loss. Her father lost their farm during the Depression and moved his
family into the small town of Danville, Illinois. Her oldest sister, Lois,
drowned while swimming in the local lake within a few years. Around the time
Mom turned nine, her mother died. Her father, left with five children still at
home, found himself unable to care for his three youngest girls. They ended up
within the foster care system. Fortunately, the small town meant all of the
Thompson siblings went to school together. She visited her sister Nellie, a
newlywed, often. Mom remembered the marble-topped furniture in their home, the
lean years of lunch consisting of half a head of iceberg lettuce sprinkled with
salt, and the wild antics of her older brothers, known for pranks that resulted
in scoldings from the local police. Only a few treasured pieces came into Mom’s
possession once she reached adulthood. She received a golden bracelet, which
she wore at her wedding. The bracelet became a tradition to wear at weddings
with my sister and me encircling our wrists with it. I inherited this lovely
piece and used it for the cover art of my novel.
The other prize from
Mom’s childhood came in the form of The
American Woman’s Cook Book, edited by Ruth Berolzheimer. All of the
frequent moves made by my parent’s military lifestyle meant somethings never
made it to the next assignment, but Mom always tucked this cookbook into a box
that came with us. Over the years, both of my parents pulled this book off the
shelf for recipes. My husband and I turn to it regularly, with me recently
vowing to try new-to-us recipes weekly. The volume, though, contains not just
ways to prepare various dishes, but also a look into life for the housewife in
the 1940s. The thick work contains color plates of finished delights. It
suggests menus for parties and holidays. Within its sheets one can find pages
of food equivalents. Struggling with ideas for school lunches for the kids?
Need a tip on how to set your plates for a fancy dinner? Want the perfect Hollandaise
Sause (one of our favorites)? How about the best banana nut bread or pancakes
on Earth? You can even find specific instructions on how to help with the war
effort.
This volume represents a life that showcases hardship and hope.
Copyright 2023 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman
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