Friday, January 17, 2025

“Cartoons with Lunch"

 


 

Thirty minutes to consume
 Frozen pizza, peanut butter and jelly
Thirty minutes to revisit
Childhood companions
Thirty minutes to escape
By joining the Justice League
Thirty minutes to choose
The nonsense of Looney Tunes
Thirty minutes to laugh
Until you cry




 

Copyright 2025 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman 


 

Thursday, January 16, 2025

"Clumsy With Stress"

 


            While cooking stuffed cabbage the other night for dinner, I stupidly took off my sweat shirt to keep the long sleeves away from water as I washed and prepped the food. I know most people just bunch their sleeves up to elbow height, but mine always rebel, creep downward, and end up saturated. One careless second, and my stomach grazed the edge of the hot pot. My pain threshold is as high as Mount Everest. I quickly grabbed a piece of ice, slid it over the area, and forgot about it until it stung with pain with my evening bath. I carefully rubbed Neosporin on the spot, but left it uncovered during the night. The next morning another layer of ointment soothed my skin and the loose pants and top I wore didn’t contact the area at all. I blissfully went about my daily chores and ran errands most of the evening.
            Of course, my neglect in not covering the section meant by nightfall the area appeared redder than the previous day. Another round of antibiotic salve and a loose gauze bandage prepped the burn for the night. This morning, I cut some Aloe Vera to rub over the spot and found a large bandage to protect it through today’s activities. Although it doesn’t look bad, I’ll check it multiple times today to add whatever protection I think it needs to heal properly.
            One of the first signs that I’m stressed comes with some kind of self-inflicted injury. My mind focuses on whatever’s troubling me and the result of inattention turns into a cut finger, smashed toe, or a variety of scorched body parts. On the surface, I don’t appear to be drowning in stress, but my wound the other day comes wrapped in worry about what tomorrow, and the days after, will bring to me and my family. We cancelled visiting my brother at Christmas because of his bout with Norovirus a couple of weeks before left him too tired for company. The flu snuck into our household, sickening my son for endlessly long days. Fires and furies flame all around us, and I dread January 20th and its poisonous potentials.
            I promised myself that I’d spend today bagging leaves that we raked into piles the other day, even if today is my “No Chore Thursday”. But maybe I do need to take the entire day off instead of finishing with the yard. Who knows what clumsy move I could make while bending, gathering, twisting and hauling? Better for me to stay safely inside with a pot of Earl Grey hot, a couple of chocolate chip cookies, and my latest read Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind.





 
Copyright 2025 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman        

Wednesday, January 15, 2025

"For Tomorrow"

 

            Special Counsel Jack Smith’s final report is currently available. I downloaded it just now with the intent to read it tomorrow. Why wait a day? I carefully monitor my personal mental health, gauging my ability to process news or documents. I processed the burning fires in California by reading reports and looking at photographs. I haven’t watched video footage or live reports. I have contacted my long ago college roommate to assure her safety, but the devastation of so many communities breaks my heart. When the hurricanes pummeled and flooded the Carolinas, written reports allowed me to control the rate at which I input their destruction.
            Learning to trickle in information that’s catastrophic maintains my emotional stability. I don’t avoid bad news, but I do rely upon my self-awareness to determine what I can and cannot tolerate. I cannot tolerate hearing certain politicians’ voices. I can read Trump’s filth, but hearing him speak turn my stomach.  I cannot watch someone’s world flood or burn in real time. I can read the articles and view on scene photographs. I cannot process horrors like Project 2025 in one sitting. I can read the document over several months.
            Today, I downloaded the report of Special Counsel Jack Smith for tomorrow.
 
 





Copyright 2025 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman

Tuesday, January 14, 2025

“Some Assembly Required”



            IKEA seduced me slowly over the years. My son found the store when visiting friends in Austin. He fell in love with the simple lines of one headboard, ordered it at first sight, and paid for shipping to have it arrive in various boxes. Another Austin trip and he brought home more boxes to add to his small bedroom. Sleek and black and made for apartments or smaller homes, these pieces blended well with his existing furniture and added function with its form.
            About five years ago, IKEA opened a store in our neighborhood. Rainy and cold days found me ambling through decorated square footage. I picked up shelves to hang on bedroom walls and a glass display case for collectables. In 2020, we opted to get rid of our very heavy wood bedroom set and searched for something streamlined and practical. Our bed choice meant added storage with drawers underneath. The dresser, smaller than our previous one, turned out to fit perfectly and somehow had more organizational options with the small SKUBB boxes that fit snugly. When my husband’s company decided to make his remote work a permanent move, we sighed in relief that our new, smaller furniture allowed us to absorb another desk in the room.
            Every now and then, a walk through IKEA results with purchases—entertainment unit, dressers, and an ideal unit for the second printer purchased as a Christmas gift this year. Each item arrives home in a nice, neat brown box easily transported in our car. We embrace the ability to save money by assembling the piece ourselves. Last year, we found a couch that all three of us loved. Couches present a special problem for a home built in the 1960s as they are often too large and overpower rooms. Our last few couches, purchased at Pier One, have been perfect fits. But . . . Pier One no longer exists. A stroll in IKEA last fall found us checking out various couches. Like Goldilocks, one was too hard and other too soft. Something that felt comfortable for the taller men swallowed my shorter frame. Then I sat on one couch and sighed in satisfaction. My husband joined me and smiled his approval. With my son’s smile, we realized we’d finally found the perfect sofa. We priced it out, built in into our budget, and finally bought it last Saturday.
            Now all of the IKEA furniture we’ve purchased in the past came in practical containers with assembly required, but for some reason, it never occurred to any of us that our new sofa would arrive in one large, brown box with assembly required!
 






















Copyright 2025 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman
     
               
 

Monday, January 13, 2025

"Abortion"

 
            The existence of legal abortion drives many American citizens into an emotional, and illogical, frenzy that’s spun our country out of control. This one issue on protecting innocent, unborn babies drives voters to select men and women for governmental positions based on the litmus test on abolishing Roe v. Wade. The manipulation of voters on this one issue has deposited us into the mire we face today.
            Potential. That’s the word that gets thrown around a lot by people wanting to change abortion laws. They rant and rail that the potential of a fetus is sacred. They insist that no one has the right to murder that potential.
            As a teacher, I experienced with several students their turmoil and resolution of unplanned pregnancies. One parent confided that her twelve-year-old daughter fell madly in love with the fifteen-year-old boy across the street. The girl didn’t even know what she did to get pregnant. Her mother and father, along with the advice of their family doctor, opted for a safe and legal abortion because their living, breathing, vibrant daughter’s potential was more important.
            Although some anti-choice groups allow for incest and rape, others don’t even want to provide that choice to victims. The freshman girl I had whose sexual abuse by her father and brother had her own potential. Would forcing her to bring to term a baby do more or less harm to her than allowing her choice to terminate the pregnancy? Her pregnancy revealed her situation and removed her from a nightmare. The abortion gave her a chance of a better future. Taken away from her family, coupled with extensive counseling, her potential amplified.
            The women I’ve know who sought safe and legal abortions had various reasons for their choices. These well-educated women had their own potentials to reach. One woman and her husband couldn’t afford a fourth child. When their birth control failed, they determined the financial burden would undermine the future of their other children. They weighed their decision carefully and used a safe and legal option to protect the potential of their family. One woman, a medical professional, had her birth control fail. I remember thinking, “If it can happen to her, it can happen to anyone.” She deliberated her career, the relationships the unplanned pregnancy would impact, and decided that the potential of all of the adult lives involved outweighed the possibilities of a child she knew she didn’t want and feared she could never love.
            These girls and women all had choices under our legal system. This is personal. This is a basic right that each of the women needed at a pivotal point in her life. None of them made their decisions without deliberation. All of them weighed their own aspirations and sought out their own potentials to make the best futures for themselves.
 
Copyright 2020 Elizabeth Abrams Chapman



My novel, The Golden Bracelet, deals with the ramifications of a pregnancy on young, vibrant Ginny after she's raped Feel free to follow the link below to follow her journey.